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Hey there, folks! I thought I would give you a brief update with what’s been happening.  Since Charlie can no longer ride the bus (driver slammed breaks on and he went flying down the aisle) he stays home during the day in his comfy crate- and loves it (trust me, if I didn’t have to work to pay the mortgage I would totally love hanging in that crate!).  I Skype in on him every now and then just to curb my self-inflicted guilt of crating him and guess what, 99% of the time he’s sleeping.  And that other 1%?  That would be him changing positions only to go right back to sleep.  That makes feel better about leaving him at home, at least until the next person asks me, “Where’s Charlie?” and when I answer they make me feel bad all over again (so, if you are reading this PLEASE stop asking me that).

Now that the weather is getting better, we are spending a lot more time outside.  I am trying to do multiple, short spurts of play so that he can build his tolerance up again without making his elbow hurt too badly.  We’ve been going on walks at a slower pace, too.  All exercise is turned down a notch to accommodate his elbow.  The good news is that ever since he’s been on the super duper joint supplements he isn’t getting stiff (after laying down and then getting up he’d be really sore before).  But, if we run too much then he starts limping again.  I give him pain meds as needed for that.

On May 1^st, we go back to UPenn for further evaluations on his elbow.  We know for sure he has the arthritis and that the joint is deteriorating, but they want to do further testing to verify the elbow dysplasia (fragmented coronoid process).  This visit entails a meeting with their ortho vet and a very possible CT Scan.  The thing that I am most worried about for this appointment is that Charlie can’t eat his breakfast because they’ll have to sedate him for the scan- Charlie LOVES his food.  I know how I feel when I have to fast like that (watch out, I am the hangry queen).  Poor guy!

Last week was fun because Charlie was delivered to me at work (thanks Ma!).  He even got to come to a meeting with the Commissioners!  I went to go visit my best friend in Georgia for 5 days, so Charlie got to go on his own vacation to his favorite family’s house- the Williams family!  Anne Marie (Charlie’s first mom) is picked him up in the city after work and I am left for the airport as soon as I was done work.    I knew he is going to have a blast with them.  He got to hang and play with his brother, Pax (the cutest chocolate lab that’s a service dog in-training), go to the beach, run errands, and be with his first loves!  We both came back refreshed and excited to see each other- you’d never see a butt wiggle so much with happiness!

This weekend we get to go and teach 1^st-4^th graders for 3 services at the Worship Center in New Holland.  The kids LOVE learning with Charlie.  He has some great lessons under his collar.  We spend about 9 hours there once a month and it’s a great experience for all of us!

Sunday is the deadline for the Team Charlie t-shirts.  They come in green and purple and all sizes!  Check them out at: www.booster.com/charlietheservicedog3.  It’s a great way to support Charlie!

Here's the news folks!

It was a little over year ago that Charlie and I started our team training.  We had only known each other for a short amount of time- during a few trainings and outings that we worked together here and there.  During those couple of months before we were placed together it felt almost unbearable… the wait to actually start our journey.  I would check my phone constantly for an update from his trainer or anxiously await the next UDS event that we would be paired up together- any excuse to see him.  Then, the week finally arrived for team training.  I got to see his reoccurring and unwavering excitement for me when I rolled through the door in the mornings at the training facility.  We bonded hard and fast, like we had always known each other.  But then things began to change. 

I feel like I owe an explanation to all of Team Charlie’s supporters.  A lot has happened over the course of this year that we’ve been together.  If you ask me what I love most about what Charlie does for me is that he makes me feel safe and seen.  People don’t ignore me like they used to- they see Charlie and me together and instantly smile.  They actually stop and talk and move out of my way.  I am treated like a human being (minus that time the bus driver didn’t want to let me ride because he didn’t have room for my wheelchair and service dog but that is a WHOLE different story).

I am guessing this situation is a lot like the beginning of a marriage, especially one where you’re young and naïve and have no insight on what it’s really like.  The kind where you’ve skipped the counsel, don’t ask the right questions, and think you know it all.  It’s as if the whole world around you would be supportive and understand everything without any effort.  You have all these hopes and dreams and ideas of all the great things that are going to happen and how every moment will feel better than the last.  And how everyone will recognize how perfect the two of you are together.  I understand that Charlie isn’t my husband, but I do think he was made for me.  It’s just that I had a very different picture of what was going to happen, even before I met him.

In my head was this grandiose idea of what life would be like with a service dog.  I thought my daily well-being would miraculously change and everything would be easier.  I wanted to believe that this would be the best behaved creature I’d ever encounter and everyone would want one just like him.  I pictured a gentle beast that wouldn’t hurt a fly, lived well beyond his years without any health problems, could read my mind, and always put me in a good mood. 

And then we had our bumps in the road.  At first, I told myself it was an adjustment period, give him time to settle in.  He needed to re-learn everything with me because I am new.  That he was still bonding and those things would subside.  I tried what I felt like was everything.  I kept a lot of things quiet and only told those who had known Charlie since he was a puppy.  We did a great job of keeping up our perfect-team image in public.  It’s like he knew the spot light was on him and that he needed to keep the front up. 

In the end, I expected too much of him and pushed him too hard.  I had to stop before it was too late, and I still wonder if that point has already been passed.  He was physically hurting and emotionally unstable. 

Charlie is still an active service dog.  He makes my life better.  There are just certain things that I have to do in order to keep him healthy and happy.  He won’t be able to ever handle riding the bus again because it’s too much and he doesn’t know how to cope.  He won’t be able to romp with his friends or share toys like he used to because he gets too overwhelmed and reacts in an un-socially acceptable way.  I don’t think I’ll ever be able to travel with him because he needs structure and a constant routine.  I have to monitor his stress threshold and make sure he doesn’t go over it.  I will have to face that he is no longer as physically fit and he was supposed to be due to arthritis and dysplasia in his elbow.  But most of all, the easiest thing of all, is that I have to keep loving him and setting him up for success. 

  I did not prepare for these medical issues in any way- emotionally or financially.  So, I have Team Charlie t-shirts for sale and the proceeds will go directly to his medical bills that are rolling in.  He has already had his elbow x-rayed multiple ways to see the severity of the arthritis and determine if there is dysplasia, but now they want to do a CT scan and surgery to slow the deterioration in his elbow.  Here's the link for the t-shirts: www.booster.com/charlietheservicedog3.

So what is my game plan?  Well, Charlie is currently on antidepressants to help with his stress and super-duper joint supplements for his elbow.  He also takes some prescribed pain meds when he is having a rough day.  I have to wait on the CT scan and surgery for three reasons- the cost, necessity, and recovery process.  One vet says it’s important to do it sooner than later in order to slow it down and the other says to wait and see how he does with the medications.  I am leaning towards waiting, especially because of the risk of surgery, the possibility of it not even working, and the expense.  And he won’t be riding the bus- I can’t control who is driving and how they drive (he slid around quite a few times and the breaking point was when he slid so hard that he was choked).  It’s just too much for him.  Eventually, I’d love to get a vehicle that I can drive and transport my power chair and Charlie.

That dream that I had of us will never come to be.  I now have to edit our lifestyle and proceed with caution.  I needed to grieve my idyllic life.  I had to understand that what I thought was completely wrong- he isn’t some dog with super powers.  He’s a dog.  And he’s still my here-on-earth saving grace.  I knew we were brought together for a reason, but didn’t think this was the road we’d have to take. 

I am truly blessed with some amazing supporters who get this and are there for us in so many different ways.  It’s like I’ve gained a whole new family through this all.  Thank you to those who are behind us and believe in us.  Your love is felt and appreciated- you have no idea how many times I’ve felt this load bearing down and then one of you pops up and lifts that load right off of me.

t-shirt sites are up! deadline is Wednesday 3/12

Hello there! Well, the sites are up.  There are two different t-shirt designs to choose from:

www.booster.com/charlietheservicedog
This one is Charlie's face filling up the front of the shirt.  It comes in pink or gray.

www.booster.com/charlietheservicedog2
This one has Charlie's whole body on the back and his face on the front in the upper left corner. It comes in jade or azalea.

If you live nearby and want to save on shipping and pick it up directly from me feel free to shoot me an email (angelinapiazza@gmail.com) or a message on Facebook.

Charlie goes in tomorrow to get some extensive x-rays on his elbows... possible sedation is involved. Keep him in mind!

AND he's turning 4 on Monday... I've got some squeaky balls up and maybe a frozen yogurt treat thing?!

Coming soon...

I am excited to tell you that a fabulous friend of mine drew a design for tshirts that I will be selling!  Here is part of it...

You see, Charlie recently started having some arthritis and other medical issues and the vet bills are rolling in. These tshirts will help with those costs. 

Stay tuned for more details and the opportunity to purchase the tshirt!

Love Like Charlie

I am excited to announce that Charlie has inspired my pastor at Worship Center to do a 7 weeks series called, “Love Like Charlie.”  It starts the weekend of October 5 & 6.  It’s about Charlie’s devotion to me and how we can apply that to our lives and relationship with God.  In addition to the weekend services, they are having small groups that meet once a month and watch a DVD that Charlie and I are in!  I am actually hosting a group at my house Wednesdays at 7:30pm.  If you’d like to join (anyone can sign up- even if you don’t attend Worship Center) go to this link.

At a recent trip to Lancaster Central Market (we go for coffee & water every Tuesday and Friday- one of the perks of working in the city) I heard someone yell my name, but as I looked around I didn’t see anyone who had called me, so I kept cruisin’ through the market.  The next thing I know, Carter, from United Way Lancaster, stopped me and invited me to the balcony upstairs (where she was calling me from) to do a quick interview for the 2013 United Way Campaign video.  So, here is the link to the video that has Charlie & me in it! 

I’ve officially switched Charlie’s food to Blue Buffalo (the other one seemed to be bothering his skin and he was having a lot of ear troubles).  It’s very pricey, but I figure that it’s a much better food and will keep us away from the vet!  Plus, he has lost 12 lbs since he’s been on it and now looks very lean and fit!  We’ve also been tracking steps with a pedometer and using an app called RunKeeper to track how far and fast we go.  During lunch hour we do almost 2 miles- and this weather is great because we don’t have to worry about heat stroke or burning his pads on the ground!

This month we have been offered an opportunity to go speak to 4 and 5 year olds at a day care nearby in the city and I am very excited to be talking to them about Charlie and how he enhances my life!  If you would like us to come talk to a group or something similar please contact me (angelinapiazza@gmail.com) because I love sharing about Charlie and allowing other to be more comfortable with people that have disabilities- it’s all about breaking down those barriers!

We’ve been keeping busy- lots of backyard action (and I just bought a riding mower so now I won’t get stuck in the jungle grass!), doctor appointments (he got to lay up on the examining table with me), lots of long meetings for work (it’s budget season!), we went to the Living Well expo and saw lots of other service dogs, went swimming in a lake (and got to jump off the dock), went to garden club, had a 3 hour road trip to Maryland where we went to a vineyard and then a friend’s house, had a birthday outing to Terrain, went out to eat at several different restaurants, and went to the Dream Ride event!  We are looking forward to more adventures, including a trip up to Massachusetts, a yard sale, Hershey Bears game, and who knows what else is in store!

Hope you're enjoying the fall!

where did the time go?

Okay, okay... I realize it's been MONTHS since our last written update- but I think of writing often, so does that count for something??

We’ve been enjoying our brand-new fence- even in the rain!  As of May the posts were concreted, pickets attached, and gates installed.  What a great job the CCS Building Group did with the installation.  They spent hours after working all day to put that fence up- volunteering their time and evenings to bless Charlie and me.  I am grateful and will think of the outstanding group of men that came out every time we are out there.  Charlie even gets to romp around with his friends!  I love being able to share my yard and fence with others (so if you ever want to bring your dog over let me know).  We’ve got plenty of beautiful weather ahead of us to be out there and enjoying it while letting the dogs tire themselves out.

In other news, Charlie has been doing MUCH better on the bus rides to and from work... despite the fact that we are on it an extra 20-30 minutes in the afternoon because of the crazy bridge work going on and detours and traffic jams out of the city!  Plus, the people are grumpier because of that and he still manages to keep his cool.  One afternoon, a guy rang the bell to get off (way before the stop so the driver forgot about it) and freaked out when the driver didn’t stop and yelled at the driver.  So, naturally, the driver slammed the breaks to let this guy off as soon as possible which sent Charlie into a lunge to brace himself from sliding.  As he was bracing, this guy starts toward the front of the bus (more like falling because we were stopping so hard).  He didn’t wait until the bus stopped and Charlie could sit closer to me, instead, this guy climbed ON the seats to get around.  Talk about impatient.  As I replay the scenario in my head all I can do is chuckle about it.  We also had a slightly discriminating situation with the bus that got resolved, although I have no clue how because of union rules.   Anyway, the bus is our only mode of transport to/from work, so let me just suck it up and move on... easier said than done.

What else!? Lots of ice cubes, baby pool fill ups, and slower walks have been the name of our game.  It's hard to believe that we've known each other for 8 months!  

In less exciting news, we've switched our dog food to Blue Buffalo brand and cut most treats out because of allergies- those dang ear issues!  Luckily, a squeaky little ball is just as motivating.  Any one have any good recipes for treats?

I've decided to create a page on Facebook solely devoted to Charlie since he is so famous and needs his own outlet.  Check it out and like it to get pictures and other updates.  We will soon be in a sermon series at our church, Worship Center, so stay tuned for that, too!

www.facebook.com/charlietheservicedog